Forget Yourself

To be charming is to be unself-conscious, it is to genuinely talk to people, smile and be kind. People with the greatest charm are those who help others increase self esteem, prestige and popularity. Give of yourself by being kind, warm and friendly. Smile easily, listen and engage in conversation.

The skill of active listening is important, through this technique you will acknowledge the speaker and build their ability to converse.

I work with a very charming man. His gift is he can talk to anyone about almost any subject.... his gift is he listens and asks questions. He is friendly, laughs easily and makes others feel comfortable in in his company. He forgets himself and in doing so invites people into his world.